Hmmm you could ask her about what music shes into or what she thinks about singers that are in the charts right now. Or films and what they like doing as hobbies. With topics like that it means there is lots to talk about and it doesnt end in awkward silence. Just try your best or like on facebook or something comment her picture sayig how nice her hair is or how lovely her eyes are:D Its not so direct and upfront which should be best for you as youre shy:)

I can see why this would be frustrating but hun, if you really care about him, you should be patient (:
The fact that he’s plucked up the courage to be able to finger you is a start, and with time, he will slowly become more relaxed and let you do more stuff together. <3

The advice I gave was doing was not in relation to stds hence why she didn’t feel that she needed to add that in. In britain the failure rate for condoms is higher than the failure rate for the pill (if taken properly) I wouldn’t advise people the wrong thing. They are literally in the same category if anything in the I was taught the pill fails less. I know what I’m talking about.

Don’t know why you feel as if you don’t deserve it. But trust me, EVERYONE deserves it. EVERYONE ! You have to change your frame of mind. You are full of self loathing and can’t see what anyone else could really see in you… You do deserve to be happy, though and to love yourself..

It’s a relationship where one partner is a sadist and the other a masochist. Sadists get turned on giving (usually erotic) pain and masochists get turned on receiving pain. In an S/M relationship, there is a power exchange where the masochist gives up power to get the turn on of pain and submission and the sadist takes that power and inflicts pain.

What language does he speak ? Try doing something cute like learning to say ” Hi, how are you, what you doing, you’re cute ” in his language. Keep talking to him. Don’t give up just because you’re shy and he barely knows English. Try to communicate in different ways. If you guys botch like each other then don’t through that out the door. Hope this helped

Haha. I’m not in love. But when you are you just know. You know that, the person will always be there for you, they will mean everything to you, you cant stop thinking about them, you need to be with them for the rest of your life, you don’t even think about other people, you don’t even have to talk while you’re together but you enjoy the company and love you share, its something which is hard to explain and no amount of words can describe it. <3

Oh honey, you should be glad your man is fighting for us, I thank him for it I think it’s going to be hard for you not to worry but at the same time you should still get on with your life, it will be hard as you love him, and you will only see him a few times, but I think you should find a friend to be with while he’s gone, and just enjoy the time you have together now, he will come home! <3

 I have EXACT the same problem. It really sucks. I basically just try to always tell myself that there’s no reason to dislike yourself so much, you’re excellent just how you are! And everyone’s different, but I’m positive that there are some amazing traits about you to be proud of. Remember that when people compliment you- they mean it! And if you’re self conscious about your looks, a really good thing to do is sit there and pick out little things you love about the way you look. No matter how big or small, anything. Do it a lot, you’ll start to notice you’re beautiful more! <3

t’s a toughy, because things could go two ways. He could either say he didnt want any commitment just what you have now, or he could want a relationship. Just ask him out to places where you cant do anything sexual besides kiss. be prepared it might not be what he wants too, but sometimes risks are worth taking:)